72ish Hours in Porto (Honeymoon Part 1, April 2024)

Portugal was at the top of our honeymoon destination list since the very beginning, although I’m not quite sure how it got there. A year and a half after our wedding, we finally booked our flights to three Portuguese destinations: Porto, São Miguel and a resort in the Algarve. We researched each destination extensively (as we do with most trips) to make the most of our limited time in each location.

Shoulder season in Portugal begins in April and I’m so glad we took this trip before most tourists arrived for the summer. The weather was great and attractions were well-staffed, but nowhere felt crowded. Many of the tourists we did see seemed to be from within Portugal itself; we crossed paths with very few Americans, despite it feeling like everyone I follow on Instagram visited Portugal in the last year. Perhaps if I lived somewhere warmer or sunnier than Buffalo, shoulder season wouldn’t be worth the risk of less than ideal weather. But if you’re going to need an umbrella either way, I’d rather be walking on cobblestones than driving the 290.

We read dozens of blog posts and forum threads to decide which city we’d visit on the trip, Porto or Lisbon. Porto is smaller and older (due to a devastating 18th-century earthquake in Lisbon), while Lisbon feels like a European capital city (because it is). Porto seemed like a better fit within this itinerary but I’d love to see Lisbon someday too.

Three (ish) days were perfect for Porto. If we had more time here, we would have spent it outside city limits, most likely on a day trip into the Douro Valley, or perhaps in a beach town on the Atlantic Coast. Instead, we made the very most of our three days within the city, wandering between incredible meals, great coffee shops and stunning buildings.

Day 1

We landed in Porto on a Thursday afternoon after a red-eye from Toronto and, because we had booked apartment-style accommodations, we couldn’t check in early. While this meant rolling carry ons across cobblestones for a couple of hours, otherwise our stay at Mouzinho 160 was perfect. Two full bathrooms?! A game changer. The apartment’s central location (and the city’s relatively small downtown) was also great; we stopped in multiple times a day for water, the aforementioned bathrooms and extra layers, which eliminated that very specific tourist feeling of packing everything you might need for the day in the smallest, cutest bag possible.

While waiting to check in, we had lunch at Prégar‘s Baixa location. The lovely staff gamely stored our suitcases and fed us excellent steak sandwiches, which was exactly what we needed after a long day of travel. This was just the first of many delicious meals in Porto. Of course, we had researched restaurants fairly extensively beforehand, and we travel with a pretty strict policy of eating only at places with at least 4.5 stars on Google when possible, but I really think you’d have to try to have a bad meal in this city.

We still had a half hour or so until check-in, so we headed up Rua de Mouzinho da Silveira to the closest location of Fábrica Coffee Roasters, a regional chain with shops in Porto and Lisbon. Coffee is deeply ingrained in Portuguese culture and there’s no shortage of third wave roasters and brewers to choose from. The coffee was great—we split one, because the next thing on our itinerary was a nap—but the views were even better. This Fábrica location (which it seems has since closed) was on the second floor of a centuries-old stone building, with seating along the open windows that lets you watch the busy street below while sipping your drink.

Rua de Mouzinho da Silveira

This is the part where we (finally) checked in, showered and fell asleep for a couple of hours. Next, we headed out for dinner, stopping on our way to Thailander to see the Torre dos Clérigos and Igreja de Carmo, our first glimpse of Portugal’s iconic azulejo tiles, which adorn buildings throughout the city.

Torre dos Clérigos Igreja de Carmo Igreja de Carmo

After dinner we headed to Baobab, an excellent craft beer bar exclusively serving local beers. The friendly expat bartender (who was also the bar’s owner) had great recommendations for both of us. Beer culture is really interesting in Portugal; it’s closely tied to the country’s political history, which limited options to regional favorites Super Bock (in the north) and Sagres (in the south) until just a few decades ago. After Baobab, we stopped at A Fábrica da Picaria; the beer wasn’t as good here but we had a nice time sipping our drinks outside on a warm spring night.

Dark beer on the bar at Baobab Baobab exterior

While the night was still young, we knew we needed to get a good night’s sleep before our first full day in Portugal. We went to be without setting an alarm, reasoning nothing we had planned for the next day needed to happen very early.

Day 2

We woke up mid-morning on our first of two full days in Porto. We headed up worn stone steps and steep streets to breakfast at CAPELA 51. This small, cash-only spot was the only place we ate in Porto where our server didn’t speak English but he was seemingly unbothered by our mispronunciation and pointing as we ordered. Breakfast in Portugal is often a ham and cheese sandwich; most places had an “American” option on the menu, which included an egg.

Rua das Taipas Land Rover on hilly cobbled street

We headed out the door into the sunny morning, off to do the most touristy items on our itinerary: Igreja e Museu de São Francisco do Porto and Palácio da Bolsa. At one time, the Portuguese empire was the largest in the world; nowhere is that more obvious than the gold-plated interiors of these buildings. Photos are not allowed inside the chapel at Igreja de São Francisco, although they are permitted in the attached convent and catacombs. We wandered through the buildings, taking in the beautiful Gothic and Baroque architecture and artistry more than anything else.

Igreja e Museu de São Francisco do Porto exterior

Looking out of windows of the covenant at Igreja de São Francisco

We left the church and booked the next English tour at Palácio da Bolsa, which was built to house Porto’s stock exchange in the 1800s and still serves as offices for the city’s Chamber of Commerce and Industry. We spent our time waiting for the tour eating gelato and window shopping in perfect spring weather. The tour itself was informative and fun. There is so much to see; the detail in everything from the wood floors to the plasterwork is truly astonishing.

Palácio da Bolsa Palácio da Bolsa

The tour was long enough that we were starting to get hungry, so we headed northeast across the city center to A Sandeira do Porto for huge sandwiches packed with fresh ingredients. From there, it was just a 5-minute walk to Porto São Bento, the city’s gorgeous train station.

Porto São Bento

From there, we walked another 10 minutes to the Mercado do Bolhão, which was very clean and had an excellent mix of vendors: food, coffee, flowers and gifts. If we hadn’t been on the first leg of a three-part, three-climate trip without a checked bag, I would have absolutely crushed stocking stuffers here. At this point, we were less than a block from Capela das Almas de Santa Catarina, which is adorned with stunning azulejo tiles on two sides, so we stopped for a couple of photos before grabbing a quick pick-me-up at C’alma Coffee Room as they were closing for the day.

Mercado do Bolhão Mercado do Bolhão Rua de Alexandre Braga

Capela das Almas de Santa Catarina

We slowly made our way back toward the river, stopping first at Armazém da Cerveja for a craft beer and a couple of rounds of cards in the courtyard. We had another beer at Musa das Virtudes with a crowd that seemed to be a mix of European tourists and locals enjoying happy hour. The tables just outside the door had the potential of a great sunset view, thanks to their location across a quiet street from Parque das Virtudes, which sits on a hill over the Douro River. The clouds covered the sun just as it slipped past the horizon, but it was still a lovely place to enjoy a drink. As it got dark, we walked to Generosa Pão e Pizza, the cutest little (and I do mean little) pizza shop, and managed to grab the last pizza of the night.

Generosa Pão e Pizza

The last stop of the night was Callejero, a Mexican restaurant that exceeded our (albeit low) expectations for tacos in Porto. We sat outside on the busy street with our food and margaritas, people watching on the busy street that only got busier while we ate.

Day 3

We started our third day in Porto a little bit earlier with coffee at SO Coffee Roasters‘ Sá de Noronha shop (one of three locations in the city) before totally over-the-top, absolutely delicious, American-style brunch at Swallow Decadent Brunch. Unfortunately, it looks like this cute spot has closed since we were there, but there are lots of brunch options to choose from. We also considered CA Downtown, STORY and Do Norte Café by Hungry Biker.

Narrow alley in Porto Narrow alley in Porto

After brunch, we walked all the way down to the Douro River, wandering through the alleys of La Ribeira before we ended up at My Coffee Porto, a darling coffee shop with stunning views of the River and Vila Nova de Gaia beyond. The banks of Vila Nova de Gaia, the city directly across the Douro River from Porto, are dotted with port wine cellars. Port wine can only truly be called such if it’s made from grapes grown in Portugal’s Douro Valley, much like champagne is only from France’s Champagne region. Each year, the previous fall’s harvest is shipped to Vila Nova de Gaia to age into port wine’s various forms before it’s exported around the world.

Although we’re certainly not wine experts or fanatics, we felt a trip to Porto wouldn’t be complete without a couple of port wine tastings. So, after our third coffee of the morning (there were just so many good coffee shops and so little time!), we walked across the lower level of the Ponte Luís I bridge and headed to Porto Augusto’s to book a tour and tasting. Because we’re not port wine people, we didn’t feel the need to visit some of the internationally known brands like Graham’s, Taylor’s or Sandeman.

Instead, we chose this smaller, newer, Portuguese-owned business for its informative (but not overwhelming) tour and affordable tasting. While waiting the half hour or so for our tasting to start, we wandered into WOW Porto, a new “cultural district” with a handful of museums that seems to exist mostly to give people something to do between tastings. Back at Porto Augusto’s, I learned a lot about the production of port wine (most of which I promptly forgot) and also discovered I do like port wine—the older (and more expensive) the better.

Half Rabbit

I really wanted to see Half Rabbit, a found art installation by Bordalo II just a block from Porto Augusto’s, so we stopped there before one more tasting. We didn’t feel the need to walk any further west, knowing we had to head back across the bridge to Porto, so we opted for a tasting paired with people watching and charcuterie at Gaia Vinhos Quinta do Noval, a small wine shop right on the river.

We wanted to see the banks of the River from the upper level of Ponte Luís I, which required walking straight up a hill (and I do mean straight up) to Jardim do Morro, where you can access the top of the bridge. The walk back to Porto was very high up (🫣) but did offer incredible views of the two cities.

The one problem with brunch is that it throws off when you want to eat for the rest of the day. We were ready for our next meal midafternoon. We wanted to try Francesinha, a meat and cheese sandwich smothered in a tomato-y beer sauce that originated in Porto, and were running out of meals to do so. We headed back to Prégar to check this off our must-do list and followed the meal with pastel de nata, another Portuguese specialty, from Castro‘s only Porto location just a few doors down from the restaurant.

We used the rest of the afternoon to wander the nearby streets, stopping first at Prometeu Artesanato‘s Rua de Mouzinho da Silveira location for souvenir tiles and then again at Fabrica Coffee Roasters, where we split an espresso tonic made with orange tonic water that was *chef’s kiss.* Next we popped in and out of the shops on Rua das Flores, including the beautiful Claus Porto perfumery.

The sunset was looking promising, so we headed back to Musa and grabbed a park bench to enjoy our beers and watch the sun fade over the river—along with dozens of people enjoying 4/20. As it started to get dark, we walked back up the hill to Baobab for their anniversary party, which the owner had told us about on our first visit. The beer bar was much busier than on Thursday night (it seemed to be a gathering spot for what we assumed to be European expats) and we had our drinks outside.

We headed toward our apartment, with one more stop at FRIK Point for late night window service cocktails meant to be enjoyed at outdoor tables. My mojito hit the spot but recent reviews do not make me want to go back for a meal.

Note: The walk from Baobab to FRIK Point (and, to a lesser extent, back to the apartment) was really the only time I felt like I needed a tall male companion during our time in Porto.

Day 4

Jardim do Infante Dom Henrique

We needed to be on our way to the airport fairly early, so we got up with an alarm and headed to breakfast at a tourist trap near the apartment. It was fine, but we should have gotten up just a little earlier and walked just a little further to have CAPELA 51 again. Instead, we treated ourselves to one last pastel de nata from Castro, which we ate on a bench under a perfect blue sky at Jardim do Infante Dom Henrique. Then we headed back to the apartment to call an Uber to the airport for our flight to Ponta Delgada, where we’d spend our next 72ish hours.

In 2025, I am Carrying On

In 2025, I am carrying on.

Alternate words for this year included persistent and engaged; neither felt as appropriately salty about the general state of things as *carrying on* does.

This year, I have a lot of goals and intentions, all within the broader theme of doing my own thing while the world quite literally burns around me. (And I do know how privileged I am to spend any, if not most, of my time simply ignoring what’s happening in the world around me.) But I want to approach each of these goals as opportunities to learn: new theories, new skills, new perspectives. Maybe I’ll even learn some of them in person, instead of on forums and blogs and dizzyingly fast videos on Instagram.

In the coming months, I will keep living and keep learning and keep making my little piece of the world a better place to be, for me and for others. I want to do this in a lot of ways, but after taking the first few weeks of the year to consider them all, jotted down in my notes app and on scraps of paper and across the whiteboard in my home office, these are what stand out:

Grow flowers.

It turns out I looove gardening.

I even like weeding. I think that’s how you know you really like to garden. I have 2 areas I’m starting from scratch this year (maybe 1 in the fall and 1 in the spring?) and I am so excited to think about what should live in these spaces. I also want to revisit a few plants I put along the back of the house last spring, because I’m not sure I love how they look as part of the whole now that they’ve grown a little bit.

The real learning moment here is a huuuge garden to the south of our house I inherited from the previous owners. Gorgeous peonies, more daisies and lilies than I know what to do with, and kinds of alliums I didn’t know existed before they popped up our first spring in the house. I adore the flowers. I hate that the garden is a square. I want to learn more about landscape design and how I might make the garden visually appealing from the house, the front yard and the road. It’s certainly not a project for this year alone, but I do want to start thinking about it, including how I might incorporate raised beds for fruits and veggies.

Nourish my body.

Not necessarily for right now, but for the next 10, 20, and 30+ years.

I know what’s a healthy food and what’s not, more or less. But I’m not very aware of what I’m putting in my body beyond this. I want to learn a little bit more about what my body needs, when, and how much of it I should be eating. I’m not going all in on tracking my macros or anything but I’d like to understand what a macro is.

Like how I look.

In the sense that I want the clothes I wear to look and feel like me.

I’ve been taking a picture of my outfit every time I get dressed for a couple of months and it’s helping me see what I like on me and where my wardrobe could benefit from a few updates. Creating a just slightly polished loungewear collection is my biggest goal in this category. I spend a lot of time in loungewear and athleisure because I want to be comfortable while working from home. But I also want to feel like I can hop on a call with a client or run an errand on lunch without needing to change.

knit clothes stacked together

Fashion, generally, is not one of my interests or strengths, but I’m hoping a few new Substack subscribes and Instagram follows will inspire me, including Allison Bornstein and Chloe Lee.

Create community.

This is by far the hardest one on the list. It’s probably the most important.

The last few years, I’ve let watching people’s Instagram stories be a substitute for asking them what’s going on in their lives. I’ve always known it’s not the same—not even close—but as I attempt to spend less time on social media and my friends choose not to put their kids’ faces on the Internet, I’ve found I know very little about what the people I care about are up to lately. It doesn’t have to be that way. It’s really easy to make group chats and everyone has to eat, so you might as well do it together. But gathering is a habit, and those don’t form overnight.

This goal is a little different because I think it will include learning from friends what works for them at this point in our lives and maybe even making a few new ones.

Here’s How I Want to be Inspired this Year

Last year was hard. A lot of good things happened: we bought a house; we got married; we expanded our family by eight very furry paws. But I also lost two grandparents and got incredibly burnt out trying to make our house livable in five weeks and spent a lot of time worrying about our new senior dogs’ health. We didn’t have the time to travel or enjoy our new backyard or spend all that much time with friends.

This year is going to be different. Because I’m going to make it that way. This year, I want to feel excited about and delighted by my life. This year, I want to be inspired, in more ways than one.

I want to be inspired by my spaces.
We’re homeowners! And while it sucks when the furnace repair man completely kills your heat while troubleshooting, homeownership also means creating spaces you love. We are so darn close to having a living room, bathroom, bedroom and guest room that reflect who we are and how we spend time in our home. I know there’s always more to be done, but this feels like a step in the right direction after making things livable last year.

I want to be inspired by new (and old) places.
When you’re renovating and wedding planning, you don’t leave the area code much. This year we’re back on weekend road trips and are beginning to think about a honeymoon. While I doubt we’ll ever return to our pre-pandemic level of travel, it feels good to have some trips to look forward to.

I want to be inspired by my outfit.
I turn 30 this year, and that seems like an appropriate time to really love the clothes looking back at me when I open my closet. I’m slowly ordering updated basics and splurging a little bit on staples like a new laptop bag and wedding guest dresses.

I want to be inspired to create and contribute.
Last year, I did a lot of consuming. Mindless scrolling while I ate or waited for the shower that didn’t really serve any purpose but killing time and taking my mind off my to do list. This year, I want to do things and think things and curate things that make me excited to share.

Settling into All 2022 Has in Store

For the last few years, rather than set a New Year’s resolution, I’ve chosen a word to focus on. In 2020, the focus was on investing; last year, I thought a lot about cultivating. After some debate (as well as two months into the new year and a full year since my last blog post), I’m spending 2022 with the word “settle” in mind.

Settling might be interpreted as being okay with “good enough” but that’s not how I’m thinking about it. In 2022, I want to settle into all of the wonderful, life-changing events taking place this year.

By the end of this year (if all goes according to plan, which we all know is not guaranteed these days), Cody and I will be celebrating our first Christmas as husband and wife, as well as our first holiday season in our new home. I want to lean into the (long) journey of making our house a home and enjoy the process of planning a wedding the reflects who we are and the people we love.

For me, settling into this next stage is about stepping back and appreciating the hard work that got me (and us) here. This is the reward for late nights finishing work for freelance clients, a year of house hunting and the willingness to see past (and scrub off) decades of cigarette smoke.

I tend to reach a milestone and push on toward the next. Not this time. This year is for taking a deep breath and settling into exactly where I am.

#sadsznfieldtrip: Tipico Coffee and Hoyt Lake

I spend a lot of time on Instagram, for better or worse, but I am very cognizant of who I follow and what they share. One of my favorite follows is Maggie, the person behind @coffeeandcardio. She talks about coffee and workouts and hiking, as well as mental health and building good habits.

This winter, she’s sharing some easy, pandemic-friendly ways to give yourself a boost of serotonin. I took her up on what she calls a #sadsznfieldtrip, a pre-work trip that combines good coffee and nature. I left the house after ordering a dirty chai latte from Tipico Coffee, picking it up from their colorful Elmwood Ave. shop a little after 7 am.

One of my favorite places in Buffalo is Hoyt Lake, which is conveniently located between Tipico and our apartment. Coffee in hand, I walked from the Albright Knox to the History Museum and back as the sun rose over the lake. From The Terrace to the Japanese Garden, everything looked extra beautiful kissed by the early morning sun. Even the Scajaquada was pretty as the morning’s commuters drove through the park.

Even in 15° weather, I wasn’t alone. Plenty of hardy Buffalonians were out jogging and walking their dogs. The trip was short (and even then I couldn’t feel my fingers by the end of it) but exactly what I needed to make my WFH week a little less monotonous.

Cultivating (Literally and Figuratively) in 2021

Last year, I chose to approach the year with a word in mind, rather than focusing on a specific resolution. I really enjoyed spending the year working toward the general theme of investment, especially considering a lot of 2020 was kind of useless for things like travel, something I initially thought would be a big part of the year. Opting for a focus over a resolution made it easier to make progress without feeling like the whole goal was pointless.

With so much still up in the air, choosing a word to focus on seems like a good idea for 2021 too. This year, I’m approaching things with the word cultivate in mind. There are five ways I’d like to incorporate it into my life throughout 2021:

Growing a Garden

This is a very literal interpretation of the word cultivate. Last year, I had some modest success starting flower and vegetable seeds in our living room. I’d like to have an even bigger and better garden this year, so I’ll start planning soon! I grow primarily in containers, so I’m not going to let our house hunt keep me from enjoying the weird pride of watching your seeds sprout and flowers bloom.

Creating Rather Than Consuming

Over the last year, I’ve sunk pretty deep into the habit of doom-scrolling, especially during breakfast and right before going to sleep. I’d love to mindfully opt for creating rather than consuming once in a while. Whether this is doodling in a coloring book, taking photos or writing blog posts (more on that in a minute), if it keeps me off my phone, I’m in.

Enriching My Community

I volunteered a lot during high school but I let it fall to the wayside during college. It’s way past time to find a couple of organizations I care about and start making a difference in my community.

Expanding My Personal Brand

When we were stuck at home last spring, I jumped on the online course train with everyone else. I started Introduction to Personal Branding through Coursera and made it through a quarter of the syllabus before it got warm enough to spend time outside. It’s time to revisit the material and put some real thought into what I want my personal brand to look like, especially online.

Building Succulents & Sunnies

Succulents and Sunnies did not benefit from my extra time in 2020. It was really hard to find the motivation to post on a lifestyle blog when my lifestyle was something like “work from home gardener” rather than my usual “weekend getaway-obsessed Buffalonian.” I do miss documenting the big (and little) moments with something more substantial than an Instagram post. I want to spend some time creating a blog that feels more like me and be better about amplifying the posts I do write.

A Stocking Stuffed by Small Businesses

Stockings might be one of my favorite holiday traditions. I just love all the itty-bitty gifts. In my family, stocking stuffers lean toward the practical: nicer-than-usual lotion, pens, chocolate, and hair ties are staples.

These goodies usually come from big-box stores at (almost) the last minute—but it doesn’t have to be that way. It’s totally possible to stuff your loved ones’ stockings with goods made and sold by small businesses in Buffalo and beyond. These small businesses make some of the tiny items I’ve loved throughout this year.

the budl shop

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Shopping small is even better when you know the business owners you’re supporting! A college classmate recently started the budl shop, making dainty, desert-inspired jewelry perfect for stuffing stockings. Each piece is handmade with love in Los Angeles and shipped nationwide in zero-waste, 100% sustainable packaging.

If you’re looking to stuff a stocking or two with the budl shop this season, use code ANDSUNNIES10 now through December 31st to save 10%!

Poppiejanes

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Whether your loved ones are proud Buffalonians living within the city limits or they flaunt their love for the City of Good Neighbors from afar, Poppiejanes’ ornaments make the perfect stocking stuffers. Last year, I topped my coworkers’ gifts with these little guys too!

Zandra Beauty

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Zandra Beauty lotion in my stocking

My skin is very sensitive, so I’ve been experimenting with soaps and lotions this fall. I love the light texture and sweet scent of Zandra Beauty’s lavender vanilla chai hand and body lotion. It’s handmade with organic ingredients, making it a nice treat for your loved ones, without breaking your stocking stuffing budget.

Niland Candle Co.

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Niland Candle Co. says nothing sets the mood like lighting a candle, and I can’t agree more—especially during the holidays. The shop’s unique holiday scents, like spruce and balsam + cranberry, are the perfect stocking stuffers. My mom and sister found these in their stockings last year, and they’ll probably make an appearance again this season!

The English Rose Tea Shoppe

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Loose leaf tea in my stocking

Loose leaf tea is something I rarely buy for myself but love finding in my stocking. Medina’s The English Rose Tea Shoppe has just about any variety of tea you can imagine, in whatever quantity you’re looking to gift.

High Mowing Organic Seeds

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High Mowing Seeds in my stocking

With some extra time on my hands last spring, I started many of the plants in my garden from seed. With this winter and spring looking just as socially distanced and travel-free as last year, I’ll be nurturing seedlings in our living room again. High Mowing Organic Seeds’ cucumbers, cherry tomatoes, and lettuce were very easy to grow, even in pots along our sidewalk.

Staving Artist Woodwork

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Staving Artist Woodwork, based in Penn Yan, uses wine barrels to create gorgeous tables, centerpieces, and serving trays. Most of the shop’s statement pieces won’t fit in a stocking, but they have lots of tasteful, high-quality, affordable, and useful knickknacks that are perfect for stuffing the stocking of your favorite wine connoisseur or Finger Lakes lover.

Kindled Concepts

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While Kindled Concepts’ adorable stocking tags might not be great for stuffing stockings, this small business knows how to make the stockings themselves very, very cute. They are a new addition to our holiday décor this year, and I’m obsessed! This husband-and-wife team also makes custom ornaments, cute coasters, and other goodies that will, in fact, make great stocking stuffers!

3 Breweries and an Engagement in the Finger Lakes

When Cody suggested spending a day drinking beer in the Finger Lakes last month, I wasn’t going to say no. This summer has been slower than most—for obvious, coronavirus-related reasons—and the thought of spending a beautiful summer day at picnic tables with beautiful views sounded great.

We started at Climbing Bines, which Cody and I have visited before, where I opted for the Honey Apricot on draft. There were plenty of open, socially distant tables under umbrellas and sun sails, perfect for enjoying what was turning out to be a perfect late-summer day. When everyone agreed on walking through the bines before getting another drink, I happily followed.

Posing in the bines at Climbing Bines in Penn Yan

Shannon and Patrick posed for a cute picture in the bines and suggested Cody and I do the same. It was truly a picture-perfect backdrop, so I obviously agreed. I should have realized when Patrick, Shannon and Morgan were all taking pictures that this was not just any cute picture.

As I tried to walk away, Cody got down on one knee and asked me to marry him. Honestly, if the conversation wasn’t on video, I wouldn’t be sure I said yes. I was so overwhelmed by the absolutely perfect setting, the thought of spending forever with my favorite person, and the stunning ring he was holding in front of me.

Hugging in the bines after

Can of Ship Wreck NEIPA on table at Climbing Bines

After some deep breaths and laughs and more pictures, we were ready to grab that second drink we were after pre-engagement. During our second drinks, Cody shared all the details of planning the day in my favorite place, we called and texted our parents, and we enjoyed our second round (with way less stressful than the first round for everyone in on Cody’s plan—everyone but me).

We got takeout from Top of the Lake and headed to Abandon Brewing Company for even better views than Climbing Bines, which I didn’t think was possible. I had never been here before and was instantly in love with its view, its beer, and its welcoming, unpretentious atmosphere. Shannon put together the cutest “She said yes” basket, complete with champagne and the best farmers’ market cookies.  We toasted to forever, drank sours and IPAs, and talked to a few more family members while looking over Keuka Lake.

Entrance to Abandon Brewing Company in Penn Yan

Full pint glass on picnic table with Keuka Lake in background

Basket filled with champagne and other gifts

Last but not least was Other Half Brewing Finger Lakes. I was so excited to try something a little different from what we find at other breweries in Western New York and the Finger Lakes. The bright pink sour slushie did not disappoint. Enjoying one last drink as the sun started to set was the perfect end to an absolutely unforgettable day.

IPA in plastic glass on picnic table at Other Half FLX

On the way home, we filled in a few more family members and really let the day sink in.

A Guest Room Refresh on a Budget

When we started apartment hunting three years ago, we weren’t necessarily looking for a second bedroom. When we found a duplex that not only offered two bedrooms, but half a basement and half a garage, we jumped at the opportunity for a little extra space. The second bedroom slowly became part guest room/part junk room. It collected Christmas presents we didn’t quite have a home for yet, drying clothes, empty boxes, craft supplies, and a lot more.

Cluttered guest bedroom before updating

Cluttered guest bedroom before updating

When I started working from home in March, it was the first time I had ever sat at the desk we put in the second bedroom almost three years ago. The extra space became a saving grace; without it, I would have turned our kitchen table into a semi-permanent office space. At first, the clutter and mismatched furniture didn’t bother me – everyone was making do with odd spaces while working from home.

However, as it became obvious that this would be my workspace for a lot longer than originally anticipated and our clients headed back to their offices, working in this space lost what little draw it had initially.

My Do It Yourself Upgrade

How could I make the room both more welcoming for guests and more functional for the 40 hours a week I now spend in it? Of course, I also didn’t want to spend a ton of money on updates, so I needed to utilize furniture I already had. The bed and desk stayed, as did the lamp. I swapped out plastic drawers for a dresser that was still at my parents’ house.

I wanted to take what we already had and meet three goals:

1. A Less Cluttered Workspace

This room now has to function as an office, first and foremost. I made two big changes to make working from the guest room a little bit easier. First, I rearranged the furniture to add more space between the big pieces of furniture. Switching the desk and bed to opposite walls, along with flipping the direction of the area rug, makes it easier to move my chair around. I also moved the shelves to the top of my desk (they had been below it) to give my legs a little bit more room.

Desk with shelves on top displaying diplomas

The plastic drawers, which were remnants of dorm room living, were the thing I liked least about my video chat background. One was filled with craft supplies, while the other held a combination of skincare and scarves. I knew I still needed that storage space, so I brought my childhood dresser to the apartment. It still had tulip drawer pulls and hand-painted grass on it, which is not exactly the aesthetic I had in mind for this update. Two coats of Behr’s Whitewash Oak and simple drawer pulls gave this dresser new life.

Painted dresser with framed items on top

In the coming weeks, we’ll probably add a small table next to the desk for our printer too. Hopefully, we can find something for next to nothing at a garage sale or on Facebook Marketplace and, if we need to, use leftover paint or stain to freshen it up.

2. An Upgraded Guest Experience

We have an extra bed, and I would hate to have it off-limits just because our guest bedroom is also an office now. Nothing was really wrong with the bedding, but it is primarily what’s in the background of my video calls so I decided an upgrade was worth it. A new white bedspread (from Hearth & Hand) lightens the room and offers a neutral backdrop for a few guest must-haves. It also gives us a place to use a gorgeous live edge plank my dad finished and a beautiful quilt Cody’s grandma made.

Guest bed with new bedding

Teddy bear rests on new shams

3. A Few Pretty Touches

Paige gifted Cody and I a stunning two-panel painting of a cliff outside an Irish fishing village a few years ago. I didn’t want to hang it somewhere I wouldn’t see it, so it’s been living in a box at my parents’ house (where I never saw it…) instead. This seemed like a good opportunity to put the painting in a space where I would see it constantly. I’m also over the whole “we can’t put nails in the walls” thing, because after three years we will probably not see much of our security deposit anyway.

The other noticeable upgrade was turning a very ’90s lamp into something that didn’t stick out like a sore thumb. Two coats from a can of spray paint and a new lamp shade were all this lamp needed. I also covered two clipboards with a map of the Austin Capital Metro system for an easy way to display photos and other memories.

I think that I’d like to use the wall space above the lamp for a very low key gallery wall that wraps around the corner. This is definitely going to take a while to get right, so I’m not holding my breath. The succulents on the desk could also probably use some stones over the soil, so I’ll keep that in mind on my next run to Lowe’s or Home Depot.

The Total Cost

I wanted to keep the cost of this refresh below $150. But I also knew that making my workspace more functional was worth investing in. I chose not to spend money on updates that we wouldn’t be able to take with us when we left, like painting the walls or installing new blinds. Instead, I focused on pieces that will live beyond this office.

Dresser:

  • Paint: $15.20
  • Drawer pulls: $12.96

Bed:

  • Bedding: $97.86
  • Amenities: $20.62

Lamp:

  • Paint: $4.33
  • Lamp shade: $21.72

Total Cost: $172.69

4 Tacos Every Buffalonian Needs to Try

Cinco de Mayo marks a battle between Mexico and France that happened in 1862. Of course, Americans have turned this historic event into an excuse to eat and drink our Mexican favorites. And I’m here for it.

Cinco de Mayo seems like as good a time as any to share a few of my favorite tacos from local Mexican eateries. If you’re looking for a tasty way to support Buffalo’s taquerias and Mexican restaurants, here’s what I recommend:

La Divina’s Potato & Poblano Taco

Contrary to popular belief, not every taco needs meat. La Divina stuffs two corn tortillas with a delicious combination of hashbrown-style potatoes and poblano peppers crisped on the flat top. This is what vegetarian dreams are made of.

Potato and poblano taco from La Divina in Kenmore

Casa Azul’s Carne Asada Taco

I’ve never had a bad taco at Casa Azul, but the carne asada is my favorite. It’s simple and delicious. You can trust me on this one, because I had just about everything on the menu when I partnered with them for Dining Out For Life last fall.

Four tacos, including carne asada, at Casa Azul in Buffalo

I take most of the pictures that end up on this site, but the wonderful Caitlin at Reilley Photography is to thank for the photos from Casa Azul!

Cantina Loco’s California Fish Taco

If you were, for some reason, looking for the perfect combination of a Buffalo-style fish fry and Cantina Loco‘s creative tacos – this is it. It’s a burrito-sized taco with a health serving of fried fish and slightly spicy slaw, and it’s delicious.

California fish taco from Cantina Loco in Buffalo paired with a margarita

Maizal Mexican Kitchen’s Pollo de Tinga Taco

Maizal Mexican Kitchen does classic, no-frills tacos right. You can’t go wrong with this combination of chicken, tomatoes, peppers and onions. Plus, an order of three comes with Spanish rice and refried beans, so you’re definitely not leaving hungry.

Pollo de tinga tacos from Maizal Mexican Kitchen in Amherst

There are so many incredible tacos to choose from in Buffalo. Next on my list are Taqueria Los Mayas (for both the zucchini and corn and breakfast tacos) and literally anything from Las Puertas.